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Power Up Weekend Continues to Inspire

Power Up Weekend

Entrepreneurs are inspiring. They are often people with vision who see a problem and commit to proving a solution.  I met 50 or so entrepreneur women at Power Up weekend who were seeking ways to affirm their goals. Kristen Bocanegra, founder of Momme Meals, told the story of her ah ha moment to make meals that are nutritionally sound for new moms who may still be breastfeeding or just struggling with the overwhelming days of having a newborn in the house.  From helping out a friend, a new business was born. (They serve the greater DC area.)

Bocanegra told her story at Power Up Weekend in Washington DC, a power packed daylong conference for women.  She helped sponsor the conference with a break time snack of homemade muffins. While her business is new, it was much further along than some of the 50 women in the room who were attending to get that first push in the right direction.

 

Power Up was a daylong conference created by Uneeka Jay of  Philadelphia, the founder of Power Mommy Nation.  Her personal mission is to empower women to take control of their lives and be successful according to their own definition. That message was loud and clear. Most of the 50 attendees were current solopreneurs or what I’d call “second shift entrepreneurs,” like Jay herself, who gets a paycheck by day and lays the groundwork for their dreams by night.  For a one-day conference, Power Up packed a lot into a well-organized schedule.

Jay who goes by @powermommy on twitter and blog radio opened the conference with her talk called “Before the Click.”  When I read the title, I wondered what she meant by “click.”  Being in digital media, I assumed she meant a web click and wondered where this was going.  Instead, she explained. “The click” referred to the final click of the coffin lid.  She explained how seeing that final click of her mother ‘s coffin changed her life.

 

She challenged the women in the room to define their goals and fulfill their dreams before the click of their lives.

 

Following that theme, JJ Geronimo, a dynamo digital woman, is the author of The Working Woman’s GPS . She, like a couple of other speakers, reminded the type-A attendees that many of them were doing too much, saying yes to too much and needed to streamline and negotiate their lives so they could accomplish what they want without crowding out their dreams. As I have often said, it’s all about balance–not having it, striving for it. Some days one side of the scale is up and some days it’s down.

 

For me these were more than reminders. They gave me a chance to pause and reconsider the personal goals we often let go with the demands of life.  Sometimes it takes someone else to push you.  Sometimes, a gathering of women with purpose can do just that.

 

Since this was an event mostly for entrepreneurs, three of us speakers offered practical help.  Cecilly Kellogg (known to the twitterverse at simply CecillyK, the woman with the swatch of pink hair, and to the blogosphere as the writer, Upper Case Woman, gave a crash course in social media, followed by attorney and entrepreneur Stacey Ferguson, known online as Justice Fergie and a co-founder of Blogalicious, who elaborated on creating a business out of blogging which focuses on the multicultural social community of women online.

I led a workshop I call The Brand of You, a how-to for dynamic communications, especially important for solopreneurs. The workshop focuses on choosing the right words to clarify their message and communicate their unique value proposition in everything they do and project confidence in doing it.

Many of the attendees were from the Philadelphia Social Media Moms group (PSSM).  Their tweets of the day and close connections made us all feel even more like we were part of a circle of friends with a common mission: to uplift each other.

 

Even attendees inspired us. At 29, Tevyka H. is an Air Force Veteran new to the DC area, who has begun blogging in hopes to somehow to be a voice for returning women vets.  She was looking for tips and ideas about how to create a social media voice as a foundation to launching something more.

 

To top off the day, the only male speaker, Jim Smith, Jr., founder of JimPact, gave a motivational capstone. He was described as Uneeka Jay’s mentor and coach, the guy who helped her move toward her goals of empowering other women.  His colorful storytelling and sometimes funny presentation encouraged us to get a TAN–defined as “Take Action Now.”  His focus is for his clients and audiences to get the best out of themselves to excel at what they do. With that, the non-stop day ended with our heads buzzing and our plans swirling.

Sponsors included The Wine Sisterhood, Momme Meals, and Honest Tea.

 

 

Hope & Heroes: Helping Kids with Cancer

Clare in her Kicking Cancer hat

Instead of me posting about this wonderful cause, I am reposting a blog written by my friend, The Mother Geek, Jeanne Garbarino, who is a  passionate scientist/communicator, a Metro-North commuter (that’s how we met) and working mom. She writes at Double X Science.

Good Deeds, Good Science: Hope & Heroes Children’s Cancer Fund

A few days ago, I received an email from my friend Helen Jonsen about a fundraising effort that is very near and dear to her heart.  Helen and her family are volunteering for the 3rd Annual Hope & Heroes Walk to show their support for the clinic that helped her own daughter, in her journey with cancer.  Taking place on April 29th, 2012 in Manhattan’s Clinton Cove Park, this fundraiser is to help ensure that the unique clinical care programs and cutting edge research funded by Hope & Heroes will continue.

Specifically associated with Columbia University’s Herbert Irving Child & Adolescent Oncology Center, Hope & Heroes boasts the ultimate NY start.  In 1997, Beth, a teenage Hodgkin’s Disease patient, decided to write the then NY Yankees first baseman, Tino Martinez.  Tino responded to Beth’s letter and invited her watch the Yankees during their spring training.  Tino and Beth “hit” it off, and their friendship inspired Tino to become more proactive in the lives of other young cancer patients by pledging a donation for every RBI he made.  The NY sports scene quickly caught wind of this, and a local sportswriter, Mike Lupica, dubbed this effort “Hope and Heroes.”

While the cancer center had been accepting donations for the purpose of supporting the innovative programs started by its director, Dr. Michael Weiner, the effort had finally been given a name.  But, it wasn’t until 2002 when Hope & Heroes filed for a 501(c)(3), giving this charity an official stamp.

According to Jeremy Shatan, the acting Executive Director of Hope & Heroes, the clinic sees about 100-150 new patients each year and about 5,000 – 7,000 total patient visits.  This number includes patients who are currently receiving treatment as well as those who have recovered but are still being monitored.

The money donated to Hope & Heroes Children’s Cancer Fund is used, in part, to finance many special programs that would otherwise be impossible.  Benefitting both the young patients and their families, these programs include the use of complementary medicine folded in to an often harsh regimen of surgery, chemotherapy, and/or radiation.  In addition, Hope & Heroes also helps to provide emotional counseling to those in need, as well as allow these young cancer patients to participate in translational research studies, which opens the possibility for novel treatments.

The Hope & Heroes Children’s Cancer Fund has forged a permanent place in the hearts of many, including Helen and her family.  We at Double X Science find this effort to beyond a “good deed.”  Please show support for this organization by donating.  Because you never know when a kid will need it.

To donate to the 3rd Annual Hope & Heroes Walk, go here.

The Economy. Jobs. Housing. Help?

This is the final post I wrote at workingmother.com.

Jan. 25, 2012–It’s the day after President Obama’s State of the Union speech. The pundits had their say. The Republicans in Congress and the candidates have had theirs. And today the Federal Reserve chimed in acknowledging that theeconomy is expanding “moderately” and because of that interest rates will remain near zero through 2014. The use of the modifier “moderately” sounded like the most generous word the Fed could come up with. By pushing the date of possibly upping interest rates all the back to 2014 it signals the Fed thinks moderate growth is the best the economy will do for the next two years.

Just a reminder, the current recession began in 2008. (Yes, there’s that word “recession.”  Are we still in one or is this just the long tail of the recession that started with a major downturn which has not exactly ticked back up?)
Somehow, Wall Street was pleased that the interest rates are still low. But, Wall Street may have been just as happy if the Fed said rates were going up because the the economy is expanding grotesquely. Seems Wall Street makes money either way. Instead, the Fed tempered its remarks by reminding the world there is still “slowing in global growth,” the unemployment rate is still high, some household spending has expanded (I guess we can’t hold our breaths forever) but businesses are not spending.  So each little up seems to be tempered by an equal down.
If you are reading this at your desk, in bed or at your kitchen table, you may be rolling your eyes at the mention of the Federal Reserve Bank.  But when the Fed says it will keep interest rates near zero through 2014 be prepared to expect that our economy is not getting better anytime soon.  It just confirms what we already know. You can see it by looking around your neighborhood. How many of your neighbors are still on the job hunt or are under-employed, not doing what they are cut out to do, or not earning what they once earned?  Is your town, county or state laying off again, laying off the people who make your community: teachers and school staffs, uniformed professionals, service workers and others? Does one of them live in your house? Are “For Sale” signs still going up with very few coming down?
Readers on the Working Mother Facebook page were asked what they thought were the nation’s most pressing problems. The answers were: jobs, the economy, housing, along with with two other issues affected by the economy: health care and education. How could their answers be anything else?

Each one of us is trying to be responsible at home with our money but we wonder what the next month or year will bring when we see our incomes shrinking by the lack of raises or job prospects, our savings shriveling, our daily expenses continuing to rise because of higher costs of fuel, food, health care and imports. Everything touches the bottom line. Whether you are a new immigrant or a long-time resident, whether a young urban mom or an older sandwich generation mom or whether you are an executive at the top, you are touched somehow by this, someone you know is struggling as much or more than you are.
While the Fed statement was to offer stability by saying, in effect, “Don’t worry, money will be cheap for a year longer” it instead makes us wonder how we will hang on and keep our families and communities afloat.  And where is the next crisis lurking?

I watched Moyers & Company on PBS with clips from Congressional hearings where Amanda Gruebel, a 32-year-old working mom with a master’s degree, who is the school district family resource director for her town in Iowa testified last summer at a Senate hearing. She told how her family was struggling under the weight of school loans, a mortgage, salary cutbacks and cost of living going up. She also talked about others in her district. Her tale and theirs is all too familiar.

The Senate video clips were part of a larger Moyers’ report focusing on the book Winner-Take-All Politics: How Washington Made the Rich Richer — And Turned Its Back on the Middle Class.
The authors argue this current climate is 30 years in the making by Washington deal-making from the White House through the halls of Congress which has tilted the brass ring in one direction, away from the working middle class.  It was a fascinating discussion between commentator Bill Moyers, a self-described up-by-his-bootstraps journalist, and the two political scientists who wrote the book, Jacob Hacker and Paul Pierson. They painted an ugly picture of a continuous series of Wall Street and government handshakes that changed how our country operates.
So are the cards stacked against us? Will the election of 2012 change our fortunes? Will one setback change how your family lives? What do you think?